YOUR FIRST HYPNOTHERAPY SESSION
Hypnotherapy is a talking therapy. It uses words to
help the client to change their behaviour. A first session will
start with the taking of a detailed client record to enable the
therapist to understand the client and their problem. Sessions may
vary in length between one hour and 1 1/2 hours. Smoking is normally
dealt with in a single session.
Other problems might be dealt with in a single
session but more commonly take several, depending on their
complexity. However, hypnotherapists expect to help their clients
(assuming that it is a problem which can be helped with
hypnotherapy) in relatively few sessions compared, say, to
traditional psychotherapy where it may be usual to have weekly
sessions for a long period of time. A hypnotherapist will normally
expect to see some beneficial change in the client after three
sessions.
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER TAKING THE CLIENT
RECORD?
If you have not been in
hypnosis before, the hypnotherapist will want to explain hypnosis to
you, and answer any questions you may have, to ensure that you are
entirely comfortable about the process. Sometimes people who have
seen stage hypnosis shows do not realise how pleasurable, in fact
how ordinary, a hypnotic trance can be.
Everybody is different, but most people feel a
pleasant heaviness in their arms and legs; a feeling that while they
could move them they would rather not bother. Your eyes will be
closed and there may be a similar feeling in the eyelids. You can
hear everything that is going on around you and, in particular, the
voice of the therapist, but other sounds will start to seem less
relevant, your mind may drift a little and you may not be sure
whether you have heard everything that has been said. It is your
conscious mind that is having this doubt; your unconscious mind will
have absorbed it all. For more information on hypnosis see Frequently Asked
Questions.
NOW THAT YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH HYPNOSIS,
WHAT NEXT?
There are a number of hypnotic
trance phenomena but the most relevant one for the client to
understand is the posthypnotic
suggestion. This is a suggestion made to the client while in
trance but which will continue to affect the client and influence
his or her behaviour when out of trance.
At a first session, hypnosis may be used to start
giving suggestions for change, or it may just be used for relaxation
and to prepare the client's subconscious mind for change at the next
session. Either way, the hypnotherapist is likely to take you into a
hypnotic trance during your first session. Most people find that the
immediate effect -- the feeling that you have while in trance --
becomes stronger each time you go into trance.
THE HYPNOTIC PROCESS
There are a large number of ways of inducing a
hypnotic trance, some fast and some slow, some just using words and
some physical actions. Once a person has gone into trance the
therapist will often use a further script to deepen the trance. This
may be done with visual imagery, encouraging the client to imagine a
garden, a beach or a mountain walk; or it may use an awakening of
early memories; or it may be by confusing the conscious mind in some
way so that it becomes preoccupied or, alternatively, chooses to go
off duty.
Whichever way is
chosen, the effect is to create a deeper relaxation of both body and
mind, giving easier access to the subconscious mind. At this point
the therapist will start to give suggestions, which may be direct or
indirect, knowing that they will be taken on board by the
subconscious mind, without interference from the logical, rational,
conscious mind.
LATER SESSIONS
The hypnotherapist may well teach you self
hypnosis. This is a simple technique which you can use to relax
in your own home. While relaxing you can reinforce the suggestions
you have been given, you can review your goals and give yourself
more motivation, or you can simply relax (very helpful for
insomnia).
Your therapist may
ask you to do certain tasks between sessions, such as keeping an
eating diary if you want to reduce weight, or doing something which
you previously had a reluctance to do if you have a phobia. In some
cases the therapist may give you a CD containing the suggestions
which you have already been given in trance.
The reason for the repetition, whether in self
hypnosis, or listening to a CD, is that the subconscious mind is
affected by compounding and will give more weight or importance to a
suggestion received many times. The advertising industry knows all
about this!
WHAT CAN HYPNOTHERAPY HELP YOU WITH?
Because hypnotherapy works by offering ideas for
change to the subconscious mind it can be helpful with any behaviour
or disorders caused by, or affected in some way by, the state of the
client's mind. This turns out to be quite a long list of
psychosomatic or psychogenic conditions, some of which are listed
below. However, if you have some problem which is not specifically
listed, and you wonder whether hypnotherapy can help you you only
have to ask, see Contact.
Although hypnotherapy can be a very
effective way to help you, the client, you must remember that it
should not be thought of as a magic wand! Neither you nor the
therapist will know everything that is in your subconscious mind;
every client is unique and, while the therapy will be tailored to
you as an individual, the therapist is not omnipotent.
CHANGING UNWANTED
BEHAVIOUR
Many of us are creatures of
habit, and when it is a good habit that can be very helpful by
ensuring that we do things which are necessary or beneficial. But
when it is a bad habit, or one which we no longer think is good
although we may have thought so at one time, then we seem to be a
prisoner of our past. Despite all our good intentions to change we
find that will power is not enough. Our logical minds know that we
should change our behaviour but somehow it is just too difficult,
and each time we try to change, but fail, this reinforces in us a
feeling that we cannot change.
Both
hypnotherapy and NLP provide xcellent ways of breaking the cycle of
failure and so can help you to make the change that you want to
make. This is an important point -- you must want to make the change
-- and it is not sufficient for somebody else (e.g. a parent or
spouse) to think that you should make the change. If your heart is
not in it the change is unlikely to happen.
Examples of behavioural change:
Smoking cessation
Over
eating and weight reduction
Insomnia
Nailbiting
Blushing
Addictions
PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
Often if we look at people who are more successful in
life we realise that it is not because they are more intelligent,
rather it is because they are more confident and better motivated to
achieve their objective. In their own mind they have convinced
themselves that they can succeed and, as a result, they do succeed.
Achieving a more positive attitude of mind is a normal part of any
hypnotherapy session. Of course, the goals that we set ourselves
must be reasonable bearing in mind the skills that we have and the
effort that we are prepared to put in.
Failure to achieve our goals, or a conflict between
work pressures, life pressures and the time available, can lead to
stress. The more stressed we feel, the worse we perform and a
vicious circle develops. Hypnosis, with its emphasis on relaxation,
can be a potent force for change when allied with better goal and
priority setting, leading to management and reduction of stress. For
those wanting to improve their relaxation there are group relaxation
classes (usually a series of five one hour sessions) which provide
an introduction to hypnosis (and self hypnosis), and better
relaxation, all at a modest cost! Call or e-mail for details of the
next series.
Under the wide
heading of personal development we can list:
Building self confidence and
self-esteem
Encouraging
relaxation
Stress
management
Emotional
difficulties
Relationship
problems
Reduction of
anxiety
Exam
preparation
Driving test
preparation
Assertiveness
Life
coaching and goalsetting
Sports or
artistic performance enhancement
PHOBIAS
Phobias are common: one in nine people have a phobia
of some sort. A phobia is an extreme reaction to fear triggered by a
stimulus. We can also say that a phobia is a fear of a fear, as the
unwanted feelings can often be created by simply thinking about the
unwanted situation. Some people may be quite happy to live with
their phobia as it does not disturb their daily lives. However, if
it leads to unreasonable or disabling behaviour their lives will be
happier if the phobia can be removed.
Phobias may be acquired as a result of a single
trauma (possibly when a child), or by a gradual learned response
(possibly influenced by parental behaviour), or by avoidance
following a traumatic event (e.g. refusal to get back on the horse),
but in every case it is the subconscious mind which provides the
response and which needs to learn a new, and less troublesome,
pattern of behaviour.
Examples
of phobias are:
Acrophobia - fear
of heights
Agoraphobia - fear of open
spaces
Anthrophobia - fear of
people
Achlophobia - fear of
crowds
Aquaphobia - fear of
water
Astraphobia - fear of
lightning
Aviaphobia - fear of
flying
Bacteriaphobia - fear of
germs
Brontophobia - fear of
thunder
Claustrophobia - fear of
closed spaces
Hematophobia - fear of
blood
Lalophobia - fear of public
speaking
Mysophobia - fear of
dirt
Ophidiophobia - fear of
snakes
Panaphobia - fear of
everything
Xenophobia - fear of
strangers
Zoophobia - fear of
animals
PANIC ATTACKS
Panic attacks can give sufferers severe physical
symptoms when an irrational fear triggers the "fight or flight"
response. The symptoms can include sweating, shortness of breath,
raised heartbeat, feeling shaky, faint or nauseous, together with
sensations of unreality or fear of losing control. There are a
number of possible causes of panic attacks, including phobias
(particularly agoraphobia), a traumatic event in the past, and drug
and alcohol abuse.
Hypnotherapy
can assist in finding the underlying causes which are triggering
fear in the subconscious mind, and also in teaching coping
mechanisms which enable the sufferer to deal with any symptoms which
may arise in the future. The knowledge that they can overcome a
panic attack means that an attack is less likely to escalate.
DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY
People with clinical depression, needing treatment
with antidepressant drugs, will need to see a doctor or psychiatrist
for treatment. However, once that has been done, hypnotherapy may
offer a complementary approach by encouraging the client to change
their outlook, set themselves goals, focus on positive thoughts and
move forward.
EATING DISORDERS
Both anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa can be
extremely dangerous conditions. People with anorexia have a body
weight more than 25% below their ideal weight, together with an
intense desire to be thin. This is a compulsion which is stronger
than the individual. It will often have an emotional cause, and age
regression under hypnosis may reveal a cause of which the
conscious mind is no longer aware. Anorexia can lead to premature
death, often due to heart attack.
People with bulimia nervosa usually have a normal
weight but feel a compulsion to overeat (bingeing) but with self
induced vomiting 10 or 20 times a day. This can have severe medical
consequences. Again, the best results are likely to come from
exploring the likely cause of the behaviour.
DERMATOLOGICAL
DISORDERS
At first sight it may seem
surprising that hypnotherapy can help sufferers with skin problems.
However, because both the skin and the autonomic nervous system have
a common origin in the ectoderm apparently physical problems can
have a psychological aspect and therefore, potentially, a
psychological solution.
Examples
are:
Eczema
Psoriasis
Warts
GASTROINTESTINAL
DISORDERS
Some disorders, depending
upon their origin, may be susceptible to hypnotherapy. In some cases
it may be possible to relieve the symptoms.
Examples include:
Irritable bowel syndrome
Inflammatory bowel disease
Colitis
Peptic
ulcers
PAIN CONTROL
One of the hypnotic trance phenomena is analgesia
and anaesthesia. Because pain can be an important indicator for
the medical profession a hypnotherapist would not remove or reduce
pain without prior consultation with the client's medical adviser.
Uses include:
* Childbirth
* Preparation for surgery and post-surgery recovery
* Dentistry, both removing the fear beforehand and reducing the pain during treatment.
CANCER AND
PSYCHONEUROIMMUNOLOGY
People with
cancer often find that, in addition to the conventional treatments
such as chemotherapy and radiotherapy, they can be helped by
complementary therapies, eg hypnotherapy, which work with the mind
as well as the body. While more clinical studies are needed there is
some evidence that hypnotherapy can improve the prognosis, and it
can certainly improve the quality of life, of a person with
cancer.
Hypnotherapy can help in
several ways. Firstly, it is good at improving relaxation and so
reducing stress. This is a stand alone benefit for everybody, but it
also assists the immune system to work better. Secondly, using
visualisation and suitable imagery the client can encourage his or
her immune system to be more effective. This is the basis of
psychoneuroimmunology, a relatively new area of research into the
relationship between the mind and the immune system. Thirdly,
hypnotherapy can help to alleviate some of the side effects of
treatment, such as nausea in the case of chemotherapy.
OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE
DISORDERS
These are repetitive
thoughts or actions which a person feels compelled to carry out even
though a rational bystander would regard them as quite unnecessary.
They can include repetitive washing of hands (to remove germs),
collecting of rubbish or unwanted items, and counting, organising or
checking procedures (for example, before leaving the house).
Disorders such as these can make it
impossible for a person (and sometimes other members of the
household) to lead a normal life. OCDs can affect one in 40 of the
population and they are difficult to treat by any method. However,
hypnotherapy may produce some improvement in the condition.
PSYCHOSEXUAL DISORDERS
Once organic causes for sexual problems have been
eliminated, any psychological causes can be addressed by
hypnotherapy. Examples include:
Erectile dysfunction
Premature ejaculation
Orgasmic dysfunction
Dyspareunia
Vaginismus